Grow Up!

Most everyone out there is capable of being nasty to someone they know.  I've seen this time and time again and it usually is the result of a misunderstanding. So why do we feel compelled to lower our standards and take cheep shots are we really that uncivilized.  Apparently some of us are.

Take the high road. Ever hear that one before?  Sounds easy right, just don't lower yourself to your adversaries level be the bigger person and turn the other cheek.  Well what if you really really just want to exact revenge?  Make the other person feel the pain they have inflicted are you justified?  Probably not but it does make us feel better sometimes.  Then guilt sets in.

Anyone with a conscience will have that little voice telling them "that wasn't nice".  And it really wasn't but what's done is done and how would you fix it anyway?  Do you even want to?  A situation was brought to my attention recently were revenge would be sweet, not practical but it would certainly teach a lesson.  The thing is the perpetrator of the situation has recently made a series of mistakes and in an attempt to make themselves feel better about it has created a false truth about another individual.  Now this person who has made the accusations is of a questionable mental state.  In the midst of a mid life crisis of sorts and they are hell bent on destroying everything in their wake.

What advice would I give this person?  I would tell them to grow up, get their head out of their ass and take a long look in the mirror.  What you've thrown away was everything most people would die for and you've taken it all for granted.  You stupid, stupid person.  The world does not revolve around you and you need to open your eyes and see how many innocent bystanders your destroyed with your series of bad decisions and poor choices.  This is no longer about you but about who you hurt so cut it out.

That's, how I see it.
Tammy.