Soul Sucking Women

GASP! There is no such thing, is there?

Oh yes there is and I know more than a few personally.  Soul sucking women are those women who decide that the man they are married to is no longer up to snuff.  They are the same women who end their marriages sighting such things as abuse and neglect or they just flat out cheat on their unsuspecting husbands or all of the above.   They are also the same women who have had everything handed to them on silver platters by men who absolutely adore and worship them.  They are selfish ungrateful leaches who suck the life out of their husbands and discard them like yesterdays news.

It's easy to become ungrateful for what you have when everything your heart desires is given to you willingly without question.  To be adored no matter what, to be worshiped and unconditionally loved and all they have to do in return is be happy.  Alas, though, they are not happy, they are never happy. Why is that? Because they always want more, they raise the bar to unattainable heights and when their demands are not met they are justified in their horrific behaviour towards the man they vowed to "love, honour and cherish, til death do they part".  One sided vows apparently that do not apply to them, just the poor sucker they manipulated into marrying them.

Oh, but wait! They weren't always like this were they?

Well, maybe not at first, of course early on in the relationship they had to appear grateful and appreciative, loving and kind.  Just the kind of woman any man would be proud to take home to mom. Oh they are masters at this and be assured this behaviour lasts right up to the day after the wedding, or maybe even upon their return from the honeymoon.  Take your pick, once they have you they don't have to try anymore.  Let the games begin.

Now the poor sod who was wrangled by this skilled soul sucker has no idea what he's in store for.  He's going to have moments of sheer joy as a result of the speck of affection afforded him, and moments of absolute astonishment as to how he managed to fail so miserably when he had tried so hard to follow the very specific instructions shoved down his throat.  Poor guy, he'll never learn, he will NEVER attain the lofty goals she sets.

Then when all is said and done, and she's sucked as much life out of him as possible, she dumps his sorry ass.  Of course somehow managing to put the fault on him because Lord knows they can never be held accountable for failure.  The really sad part is, once dumped the shell of a man is left still wanting for the wife he loved, adored and worshiped.  He doesn't see that it was all one sided, that he was in a relationship with a phantom, it wasn't real.   So very unfortunate the situation afterwards.  But never fear, they do get theirs.

One sentiment I have heard time and time again once the soul sucker has had a few months to enjoy her new found freedom, is that they realise their mistake.  Too late, hopefully by that time the man they emasculated has regained his confidence and reclaimed the person he once was and now realises what a fool he was played for and has moved on.  So too bad for you soul sucker, too little, too late!  And by the way, your misery looks good on you.

So for all you men out there who were, are or are thinking about marrying a soul sucker.  Think twice, ask yourself, "does she meet me half way?"  "Does she expect me to be all that, while she sits back and receives without giving?" "Will the wonderful woman I thing she is remain after we say "I do"?"  If you are unsure about any of these questions.  RUN before she manages to suck the life out of you! Or if you're really brave, call her on it.

That's, how I see it.
Tammy.